Thought about your post, AlwaysChanging - it's such a limited system in place that gives either/or options....I see that many things in life don't fit these restrictions. I like to straddle the fence, myself - as someone who idenitifies as androgynous and bisexual, am frequently asked to take a stance on one way the other. I like drifting between the poles, free to define myself, as you do. I think you sound like a beautiful combination of of both genders, uniquely your own.