Forklift - have you tried the youngwidows forum???? I think they are still on yahoo.

Being a widow of 8 yrs I understand your grief - and they will too. I was a moderator on the site for 2 years and personally couldn't of made it without those friends - great, close friends today - I can depend on them as they know how it feels. I will try to find the website - probably tomorrow as I need some sleep...texan