I have read back thorough your posts .. I am totally confused

Does she want to live in the USA or Finland..... Speaking in English would help her in some situations in this country (USA) But not everyone here speaks English.

If shes all bent out of shape about Finland and what they teach or don't teach, then why doesn't she go back and get involved in possibly make some changes.

Does it really matter what her likes and dislikes are if shes just your neighbor? I guess shes your friend?????

Making lists of her likes and dislikes? Sure you are going to get advice here.. I am just not sure what type of advice that you do you want ? Do you want us to say "she should learn english" " she needs to stop being worried about what Finland is teaching kids" ?????????

I'm not being sarcastic or rude...

I am just confused about this whole situation and I also wonder about people saying " shes not real " who are these people ? and why does that matter to you ?