I am still tired from well the trip and hearing 2 year olds scream is just to much to be honest I wish she was my child so I could put her in her home and let her scream until she falls asleep. It seems like that's what she wants to do so why should I force food down her throat. That's how I see it with people that are difficult not just children sometimes they have to do the uncomfortable things before they find out they don't like it. I just think making her eat and let her scream and then slap her in the butt for screaming is just not going to make her learn that if she screams she's going to have consequences. I have always thought violence I mean like tiny amount on her butt isn't going to teach her much other then it's going to make her afraid of expressing her emotions. The problem isn't that she's screaming it's more that the parent won't let her express her pain and is very quick to hit her. Children need patience and well acknowledgment for there emotions that's why I will never agree with any form of violence. When I raise my children I want them to be able to express there negative feelings until they learn a way to express them better who am I to control how they express emotions by hitting them?