I'm a bit confused here ...

You are so lost in this other person's life, I can't help but wonder ...

What is your relation to Kira?

Why are you focused on her and her issues instead of your own?

It isn't healthy to be so consumed with "fixing" someone else.

With that being said, PsychCentral is an awesome place to get input and support ...

However, I truly believe it might be helpful to you (and this Kira person) to also get some professional help from a therapist that practices near where you are living.

Sincerely,
Pfrog!