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Old Jul 31, 2016, 11:18 AM
jpmanyhearts jpmanyhearts is offline
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Originally Posted by MrMoose View Post
Narcicissm has a very poor rate of cure: the narcissist doesnt think anything is wrong so how could it need fixing? It's tough to watch someone you love crash and burn but the very hard reality is that however much you care and want to help, you aren't in charge of fixing her.
so theres a phrase i use some times in my head tell me if im right

i go to her and try to talk to her about something thats negative (something that makes her a bad person) and she gets defencive and says "well what about you " what about the things you do ? then i say but were not talking about me were talking about you and that just starts an all out war so my phrase is when i turn the mirror around so she can see her self she doesnt like what she sees and turns it around again right ?