I originally started T because my 10 was having a lot of problems and I wanted to get him help. The T I chose does family and couple counseling as well as individual. My husband went to a T session alone once. It was supposed to focus on how he was treating our kids and to get him to realize how his verbal abuse was affecting our 10 yr. Although this session was VERY effective and he really got the message about abuse I still fume over it sometimes. When he came home he told me how the session went and all the stuff they talked about. It seemed like they talked a lot about me. I don't think I could handle him talking to her again or us both being there. I want my own advocate for a while.