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I have talked about my feelings and what parts make me uphappy and it starts arguments that are huge.

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Hi Random,

Your obviously a sensitive person; some people wouldn't bother to look for advice, they would just do the deed.

The 'huge' arguments indicate that your partner is going to suffer, and I guess this is what is worrying you the most.

You'll need to go right down into your boots for this one, and decide what you want for the future. If you really do want to split, then pretending to keep the relationship going would be more cruel than being up front with how you really feel.

It's your call, and I hope it works out for you and your partner, either together or apart.

Good luck, ethinker,