I can totally understand the reason for financial freedom. I'm certainly not knocking that or that choice. If it has given you what you want then so be it. Throughout history women have used their bodies to their best advantage.

I also believe that not just perverts use caming like you said. I'm trying to keep in mind the many other people out there that will view this thread.

So my next question was about the title of the thread & how you can explore this.
You stated that sexuality must be delicate & precious. So I'm nudging you to think of how you came to this conclusion to feel so strongly about it. I think if you knew these answers it would make it easier for you to find what your looking for.
Knowing that there are others out there that might view all this differently. The next step is how do you get these components in your partner.