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Originally Posted by granite1
im worried she will send me a letter .i would not even want to read it . i am hoping ill have maybe a week before she does . i wont be able to deal with what she will say . how hurt she is and will never ask anything of me .and how she was trying to help me by telling my son to get out of the house etc...
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I liked my mothers letters. They made it clear how self-serving her attitude was. Me me me me me. I didnt even exist in her world. It was nice to see it in black and white.
Mine would not have said, she was trying to help me. She would have said, she thought the right thing to do was tough love, but oh poor stupid her, she got it wrong, she messed up. NOT she hurt anybody elses feelings.
Eta - We talk about the non-apology on here all the time. Betting you dont even get that - "im sorry you feel that way!"
