I remember reading one where you were unhappy with the physical intimacy aspect of your marriage. He was not meeting your expectations/needs, if I recall correctly.

So if I'm understanding correctly there are several areas where needs of yours are ignored or simply not met. I'm guessing these increased gradually over time. It has become signicant enough where you had decided to end things, but now you want to stay with him. Is that a fairly accurate summation of your situation or is there more going on?

If it's about needs not being met, there's hope for improvement. Your needs would hopefully be met and you'd become closer, etc. You haven't been betrayed or abused. You mentioned emotional... any emotional abuse?

Is that the crux of it?