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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
Perhaps the secret to a happy marriage is to have zero expectations? (Just a redundant question to ponder).
From my experience (not personal, but from friends and family) it's not too out there to leave and go back a few times.
I hope that writing here helps to solidify whatever decision you make for yourself. It has helped me tremendously to get another point of view.
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True, zero expectations = zero disappointments. But then our spouse is no different than any stranger to us.
That's where I really need someone who supposedly loves me to come through for me. My father didn't even think anything of me and cut out on us because he was MI. My mother is a piece of work.
In this marriage I have felt like I just serve him. He has acted like he really didn't need to do anything because he is the bread winner. It all comes down to me just having to kiss his ***.
I'm glad I didn't go running back to our house. I'm staying by myself at my place and not rushing anything. I don't want to go back there.