Love is a lot of things but the basic problem with love is figuring out how to KEEP it once you find it and most folks who "fall in love" FAIL to keep it alive and well so the love slowly or quickly fades and dies! IMO, most folks need to get some relationship books and LEARN HOW to keep their love alive and well once they have it but I see that most folks just can't be bothered or proudly believe they already know all there is know about love and how to relate! The sad fact is the they DON'T KNOW HOW!