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Originally Posted by Seraphine
Well, if it comes to her not wanting contact again, you can deal with that as it comes. Have some grace with yourself, as in, how would you talk to a friend in the same situation? You would tell them to be kind to themselves and to let her have space and take time to heal wouldn't you? I know I certainly would.
Just take each day as it comes, keep respecting her wish to be alone, and start working on making yourself happy again. Just little things, small victories to take pride in etc until you are back on your feet. You never know, that may be what she is waiting for anyhow. And once you're on your feet, if she still doesn't want to talk, it won't hurt as much and you can just keep moving forward *hugs*
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Yeah. A lot of my friends said just focus on me and if it's meant to be she will come around. Some got mad and said she won't and that I'm fooling myself. Those friends did not help and caused me more pain and anxiety. Nobody has a crystal ball. The mutual friend and I just have a bit of a better guess because we know her, but we're getting worried because it's been over two weeks now. It's like she's not her anymore.
I need to pick up motivation to start doing things I enjoy again and apply to some new jobs. I'm not 100% keen on my current job. Ever since the break up I've been dragging myself through nearly every day and sometimes-like today- I can't even start them because I can't force myself to go to work or get out of bed for example.
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