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Old Aug 01, 2016, 11:03 AM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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Originally Posted by rainyday107 View Post
I remember reading one where you were unhappy with the physical intimacy aspect of your marriage. He was not meeting your expectations/needs, if I recall correctly.

So if I'm understanding correctly there are several areas where needs of yours are ignored or simply not met. I'm guessing these increased gradually over time. It has become signicant enough where you had decided to end things, but now you want to stay with him. Is that a fairly accurate summation of your situation or is there more going on?

If it's about needs not being met, there's hope for improvement. Your needs would hopefully be met and you'd become closer, etc. You haven't been betrayed or abused. You mentioned emotional... any emotional abuse?

Is that the crux of it?
Neglecting the physical intimacy is emotional abuse to me, as I have expressed my need for it to feel loved in every possible way. He has even admitted to me in the past that he withheld sex because he was mad that I didn't put the silverware in the drawer straight like he likes it! Then he denied ever saying that.
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