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ECHOES said:
i hate it when she thinks she gets me but she doesn't

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">I know, that can be so awful. It is worse than when they are not getting you or connecting but they know that. My T has told me that it is said (Winnicott?) that the therapist/mother is "good enough" if they get you 1/3 of the time. Another 1/3 is you don't connect but you repair that. Another 1/3 is you don't connect and don't repair.