When my husband got aick with an autoimmune disease i was sad for him, but 100% jealous he got to have more time with the kids.
I constantly pushed him to do more and more around the house. It was unfair of me to do that.

I totally get the instant role reversal, and it was just as hard on me having to be the one with the financial weight on my shoulders as it was for him to accept that he cant phsyically do the work he once did.
Couples therapy helped a lot. And open communication.

I dont have any experience with ssi, so im sorry i cant give imput there.

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