Your major anxiety is caused by the gut feeling you're blatantly choosing to ignore.


Your gut is telling you this guy is very bad news.


Don't blame abuse on alcohol, a non violent partner doesn't suddenly become violent when drunk. In other words, he definitely has the capacity to become violent while sober, and sadly since he already became violent so soon after meeting you, the probability that he will do so, is SKY high.


Moving countries?


You'll be stuck in a strange place with an abusive partner, and from what you've written, he wont "let you go" so easily. He'll most likely trap you, physically, mentally and emotionally.


Passion is all good and well, but in some cases that passion ignites into toxic flames. I speak of experience.


Please don't ignore your gut feeling in favor of passion any longer.


Your safety and possibly your life, is at stake here.