I would have kicked you in the nutsack if you said anything terrible about my dad just after he died.


And I'm very aware of my father's shortcomings.


It's a natural reaction.


Your reaction, to discredit a woman before her body is even cold, was however not what I deem a natural reaction.


I'm struggling to understand your motive.


You say you wanted to help, but telling children how terrible their mother was doesn't make them stop grieving.


So again. I'm stumped at your appalling and callous behavior.