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He is one of these guys who is going bald and shaves his head.

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That's my T too!!! His head is never shaved completely clean, it's always buzzed.... but you can tell that he is going bald so he just buzzes it really close to his head rather than grow it out with a big bald spot, lol. I thought anything of that haircut before, but now every time I see a guy with it I feel like hugging him or something, lol.

I love your story about the bed. I think that is a wonderful beginning.

T substitutions make a lot of sense. Not that anyone could ever really be a substitute for what our Ts mean to us but I can compeltely understand the need to "let it out" to others when T is gone. In fact you may find little connections here and there that you wouldn't normally have realized.