I am sorry but she knows what she is doing, her answers to you are tactics in the war she is waging to get you to agree it is your fault and that things need to be on her terms from now on,agree to what she wants and you will never be happy ever.There is no cure for what she has got,get out while you still can and stop feeling guilty and don't accept it when she plays the victim cards she will abuse you forever and convince you she is the one wronged...these are typical narcissist tricks.