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Originally Posted by Becoming
Yeah I'm going to tell the friend to leave her be. All we know is she's stressed about family and going back to college soon. Still, nonetheless I feel completely erased and I not worthwhile to her in the least.
I like video games. But today I've just mostly been sleeping on and off so far. May play them soon.
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Feeling erased is a terrible feeling. Especially when it's the person closest to you.
I know it doesn't probably feel like it or matter much because it's not her, but you are still worthwhile. Even if she chooses to walk away, you will still be worthwhile and someone will be lucky to find a girlfriend as caring and as willing to make the effort as you are.
Sleeping can be good, too. You're probably burning through a lot of energy with what you're going through right now, and sleep will help you bear the stress better.
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Originally Posted by Becoming
I agree with this. I'm meant to be trying to make some sort of change soon, but I get that. I don't like my job so I wanted to find a new one. I also wanted to maybe move or get a new car. But these are all major life changes I was even thinking about before and during that relationship. Now I just don't know what to do.
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Well, since you've thought about it when calmer and don't think it would put more stress on you, maybe going with just one thing/change could even help. I just didn't want to see you make big decisions in the heat of the moment without having thought them through, or experience additional pressure that might put you over the threshold of what you can tolerate. (I've certainly done that - not happy times!)