You've gone over and above what you had to do and tried to forgive him. You tried and even went to counseling with him and tried to move on. You've gone far beyond what even I think I could do for a cheating spouse.

On top of this, it's not about not being able to get past it, to be honest, I don't think he ever changed. The above statement says so. Thing is you may have been trying but he was more than likely putting on the act to try and "get better" in order to keep you from leaving, and likely he was never actually going to stop being the way he is.

His true colors have come through. Him trying to blame you as if he "doesn't want to come home" anymore is bullsh*** and just a cover up for being caught again. He knows he can't cover it up anymore so is trying to make you out to be the bad guy here and frankly he makes me sick.

Move on. don't blink, don't even think. Just get out. You have more than enough evidence that things will continue the way they are, at best and at worst, it will deteriorate further.