Thread: Why jealousy?
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Old Aug 02, 2016, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted by justafriend306 View Post
Well I think it might have to do with what the jealous person feels they have lost - especially if it they have been wronged by the person they resent.

But I think there are legitimate times for jealousy..

This story is but an example of the consistent gros difference of parenting between my brother and I.

One Christmas I got a skate board with the $16.99 sales tag still attached. My brother got a complete set of new hockey equipment in addition to outdoor equipment including tent, camping gear, and fishing tackle.

I think jealousy is an appropriate emotion in this case.

Being the only kid in highschool not to have a car? I think jealousy is appropriate in this case.

Having a 7am bedtime in grade 12? I think jealousy is appropriate in this case...
I agree with you. It is wrong to discriminate between children by parents.
But one of the side effects of being jealousy is that we hate the other person and distance ourselves from them. But there is nothing wrong done by the other person who got benefited. Those who gave benefits can be blamed. So, to some extent,I feel, jealousy though we may think appropriate, pollutes our mind and is hence bad.
I may be wrong , this is just my personal observation. What do you think?
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