For many this is a very ananomous site & giving their name even first name could mess that up. My name is in my signature. I actually found a friend on here from way back in college in the early 1970's. We both discovered each other at the same time. It was rather cool. His first name was actually part of his user name a& we had both been music majors at the same junior college. So even with being ananomous, it's still possible to figure out but many won't risk