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Old Aug 02, 2016, 02:32 PM
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Most of you that know me, will remember the past posts related to the girl at the coffee shop. I try not to post all the time about her because I know it would get boring and annoying but anyway...

to your first likely question: NO, I have not yet asked her out. there. I said it. Yes, I still fumble about in self doubt :P

Ok so something developed and many people in chat are saying they are good signs and I wanted to bounce this off you all too oh, wise women of PC

I still go there, life goes on, I get my daily coffee and for awhile she kind of "backed off" as in not seemingly as much interested, I figured it was a sign. I went in one day and indirectly pointed out how introverted I am by my shirt that stated so (it's a shirt that says "introverting, quiet please..." and has a battery charging symbol) I didn't think anything of it but she was there so I'm sure she saw it.

Well the next time I saw her she was very friendly to the point that I was a bit taken aback. early in the visit she stopped to ask me "how long does it take you to drink these?" since I get a triple shot espresso with a splash of half and half. I told her about 30 seconds. she was like "woah" anyway.. so I got my coffee but it didn't end there, she came over and out of the blue asked "so, do you work from home?" I said "sometimes". She then asked "what do you do?" I told her, "IT development" Then she asked "is it hard?" and I replied "not anymore." she replied "did you like, go to school for all of that?" and I tried with difficulty to explain (something I do a lot when people ask but for reasons we all know it didn't seem to come out right and I kind of fumbled around) so.. yeah it was kind of interesting that she asked so many things.

The next day she didn't talk to me or anything but from behind the espresso machine, did this little finger wave at me and really smiling at me. She seemed to be happy to see me anyway.

am I dense or is this meaningful behavior?
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