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Originally Posted by HalfBloodPrince
...one of the side effects of being jealousy is that we hate the other person and distance ourselves from them. But there is nothing wrong done by the other person who got benefited.
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I disagree. There
is something wrong when the other person makes a show of blatantly enjoying the situation I would suggest the other person has an obligation to act upon and make right the situation if they are able.
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Those who gave benefits can be blamed.
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But so too does blame fall on the shoulders of those upon which the jealousy is focused.
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So, to some extent,I feel, jealousy though we may think appropriate, pollutes our mind and is hence bad. I may be wrong , this is just my personal observation. What do you think?
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While yes jealousy can grip us and cause debilitating resentment but to say it is wrong somehow blames the 'victim'.
It's not just about the resentment it is about how the situation was allowed to happen.