I wonder if focusing on something that some random guy texted once is taking your focus of true issue ( I recall you were having marital problems and husbands substance abuse concerns efc).

Sometimes when I don't want to face true issue I become preoccupied with minor things that are of no importance. I wonder if that's what you are doing: being concerned why random guy texted something once or why is he still hanging out with his ex- why is it even a concern. Are you trying to avoid serious issues?

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