Hi fayerody,
Just read your post about the landgrabbing neighbour - that's gutting.
Sometimes it pays to take a step back when something as big as this happens. Injustice has a way of creeping into your bones and it is a depression trigger.
As your lawyer is obviously on the case, I would recommend distancing yourself from the issue if you can, and let the professionals sort it out. I know it's hard, but if you can think of your own health and peace of mind before anything else that can't be a bad thing.
So many people get eaten up by issues like this, and it just compounds the hurt. It sounds like you're a strong person, and I'll bet that you'll come through OK. I recently had to deal with an injustice that was getting inside me, and I thought of it like a great weight which I just had to put down. I could still see the weight, but I wasn't standing there holding it all day.
I know it's easy to say.....
Good thoughts to you, Myzen