Pinksoil,

I would love a trip to PA.....my grandpa was born there & that's a part of the country I have never seen.......I'm a lot closer to PA now than when I was living in CA.....over 1/2 the way there already......lol.

Unfortunately, I know exactly what you are feeling because I've been there only about a year ago, so the feelings are fresh in my mind. I continually have to remind myself even now & plan all my expenses. It's a lot of work, but in the end, I have found that the feelings of being successful at finances gives me even better feelings that that of spending. It's a very fulfilling feeling knowing that one can be in control. That feeling of being in control is very inpowering & it really is an amazing feeling to experience.

I know you can get there....whenever you need to talk or need some support....it's ok to PM me......I'll be glad to help however I can,
Debbie