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I'm engaging in projection!

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So, for those of us who got a B in psychology class, please explain this again, using my example to illustrate!

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Projection is when we unconsciously project our feelings onto our Ts-- making something as if T is feeling it when it is really us.

I did this a lot in the past with T in regards to my SI.

I would tell him that he didn't want to talk about SI-- that he was probably uncomfortable with it. I was projecting my own feelings onto him-- I was the one who was uncomfortable with it and didn't want to talk about it.