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I really want to move, but I get caught up trying to figure out how that would work. I'd like to move out of state... but get anxious about finding a new job and moving without any kind of support network (ie to a place where I don't know anyone)
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That is exactly what I did when I left my H 9 years ago after being married 33 years. I found a little 10 acre farm 2100 miles away in a state where I didn't know anyone. Actually had never even been to this state before. It was the best move ever. I found the perfect psychology group & they made a huge difference with DBT Group & wonderful care in more ways than I could imagine even helping me pay & when I had problems with a guy who I couldn't even sue put in a bad heat pump system they had funds available to pay to have the outside bad unit installed. I was shocked. I have wonderful horse people I ride with & the most wonderful church family & the best friends from a bible study group I went to when I first moved here. I realize after this just how bad life was compared to how good it is now? I had no idea what I was getting into but it is wonderful
Have found that when doors open most of the time going through them is the best thing possible