Have you given any thought to how you've come to find yourself in the same situation over and over?
Reminds me of a Whitney Houston lyric "Same script different cast..."
My thinking is that once you identify it, you will be able to break this cycle of pain and loss.
For example, some of us grew up with abusive, emotionally distant or neglectful parents, then find ourselves repeatedly dating people who recreate that experience or share the same traits as our parents.
Sometimes its because its all we know, sometimes its a comfort zone, and sometimes its because we subconsciously attempt to recreate the past in the hopes that we can change the outcome, and thus heal the trauma...
Sorry, didn't mean to ramble, its just that from reading your threads its evident that you keep finding yourself in very similar situations and I would like for you to be able to free yourself from that.
You deserve happiness and love, just like the rest of us.
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DXD BP1, BPD & OCPD
"The best way to make it through with hearts and wrists in tact, is to realise, two out of three aint bad" FOB...
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