I definitely agree, those are some of the worst things to say to someone who is depressed. I know what I come out to my family about having BP everyone wanted to pray over me. That's great and all, but that is like praying for someone who has diabetes. It is a lifelong illness and understanding with support is a much better approach. I also wish people would know there is nothing they can do to fix our moods, we just have to ride through it.