Hi everyone,
I'm new here. I saw this message and have to respond. My husband passed away January 2016. He was diagnosed with cancer in September 2015. The illness and shock was a nightmare. I too have dreams of my husband similar to yours. He's alive but dead or he's alive and going to die or he is weak and sick. You feel haunted by these dreams the next day. I still find it hard to believe he's gone. He was in hospice and they offer bereavement counselors and groups. Every week I tell myself I should go, but I don't. He was only 56. It's very weird to live alone after being with someone for 35 years.