I got it from my therapist. He is mainly a child psychologist. I told him i couldnt go on with no one ever loving me. That no one ever supported me - i dont mean financially, but emotionally. It has taken a long time. So i got my validation from him, and then i started getting validation on pc by learning how to get along with people here. That took a long time too and was not easy! At the beginning i often got into fights here. I still do a little! I think you and i both have a big personality