(((bumbling))))))
Yeah - I know what you are going through - last year I lost my step-dad of 34 years. He and I were very close. He had remarried after my Mom died but we stayed close. Anyway, his wife was a bit odd but always nice to me. Within 2 weeks of his death she had an add placed on EHarmony.com - the internet dating site - and within a month she was traveling to see the guy she had hooked up with there - all this after procliaiming that my step-dad was the love of her life (they were married 5 years.) Two months after that she was married to the guy. Of course now I am afraid she killed my step-dad off. She is an ER nurse and yet she let him experience terrific chest pain and after 8 hours finally die at home without calling for help. He was in otherwise good health and no history of heart problems. Then I find out she had been married 8 times before but only told us she had been married once before. It is scary stuff - you never know in this day and age. Good luck to you.