Hugs!!
Thank you Bella! From the research that I have done on HPD it is like nothing helps. The only thing that seems to be on the books is to just try to not fall into their attention seeking times (which always seems to be the case). My Mom comes into the room and she expects us to fall over ourselves to cater to her and when we don't she sulks and makes everyone miserable. A general Hi how are you doing? How's it going? attitude just doesn't cut it

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Pita - I am so sorry that you have had to go through that. That would make me very suspicious as well. I take it she isn't in your life anymore. I wonder if there is a way that you can do an inquest?
Thank you again!