We had a huge party at our house. A band and all. My husband is a person who never touches or hugs anyone. A girl at his work was at the party. He is always talking about her to the point where I get sick of hearing her name. I have been trying real hard to think that they are good friends. O.K. at our party he danced with her, then they stood holding hands and talking to people. This is a man who won't hold hands with his daughter or hug his son. I have never felt jealous in all the 31 years we have been married, but a red light came on then. I asked him, the next day if something was going on, and he became very angry with me. He has her cell phohe number in his cell,and says she is his best friend. My best friends told me that it wasn't right for her to stand and hold his hand like that. I am really torn up because he just does not ever do this. I guess I need opinions. It is just a sick gut feeling.