It seems like a one way street with her. She says she wants you back on meds yet she refuses to get her own help. Are you asking us how you can help her? If so, I'm sorry to say but if she doesn't want help, she's not going to get better. I would say to try and convince her to go to couples counseling. But as long as you both aren't stable, this relationship isn't going to be easy. And the ex sleeping over??? Wouldn't sit with me. I just want to say that you and I have the exact same dx's so I get your mistrust and need for attention. It does get exhausting for my bf though when I'm constantly asking him questions trying to get something out of him. Then I have to sit back and realize that he didn't do anything, it's just my issues with my own MI coming out.

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