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Originally Posted by CassyO
For me it's confidence in my own boundaries. If my boundaries (which are rigid as it gets) start dissolving, then I know I'm slipping away from me and more into obsession. But if my boundaries are standing firm, I can still tell right from wrong and have the confidence to stand up for what I believe in (in opposition to Mr Hot) - then I know I can go enjoy myself and not be taken advantage of.
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What exactly do you mean by your boundaries. I ask because I do not have strong boundaries at all. I think it is because I don't really believe in most of conventional morality. The only thing I do try to adhere to is not to hurt someone knowingly.