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Originally Posted by Pain94
Can I tell you something? You don't really want this trust me!
Might trigger.. A former T of mine lost his license for being "sexually inappropriate" with me and many other clients. I didn't want it and Im sure others didn't. It took my soul, my ability to be with my husband. He very much is a big reason for my divorce. Please dont be your T in that position either. He will not act on it if hes stronger than my former T, it is very very unethical. Talk through these feelings but o not act on them.
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No, no, I understand. And I don't want this now, while I am in therapy with him. Or, more exactly, I want it and I am also afraid of it. But perhaps I want some indication from him that he wants it also. Perhaps I want him to say this and to end therapy.
I am confident he will not act on it. He has been attracted to me for more than a year and has never given the slightest indication that he will.
But at the same time I wonder - can we really talk through these feelings just from one side, only talking about my feelings, never his?