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Originally Posted by CassyO
I would find that too difficult- I would need to know his feelings in their entirety if it were me.
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Yes, I am finding myself stuck in my therapy because of this. I tell him that in session, I sometimes see that he is attracted and I don't know what to do with the feelings it induces in me - it makes me want him more, want him right then. He says, why do you have to do anything, can't you just have the feelings? No! I want to know what it means that during therapy he feels attracted. But he does not feel it would be therapeutic to talk about his feelings.