Jin,

In my opinion I think you might be suffering from some unrealisitic expectations. As sabby eluded to sometimes your request is read / heard but the timing isn't correct.

It seems to me that if u ask for a hug from this person and you didnt feel it came within your time frame u became paranoid...

i would hate to be the bearer of bad news but you own this one..... The other person had no fault in this bcos yourself id making u feel this way....

Other than that have a blessed day

T