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Old Aug 05, 2016, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by frackfrackfrack View Post
Yes, I am finding myself stuck in my therapy because of this. I tell him that in session, I sometimes see that he is attracted and I don't know what to do with the feelings it induces in me - it makes me want him more, want him right then. He says, why do you have to do anything, can't you just have the feelings? No! I want to know what it means that during therapy he feels attracted. But he does not feel it would be therapeutic to talk about his feelings.
Totally understand these feelings come up in therapy sometimes.
He has said he feels attracted to you. Could you clarify- what else do you want him to say?

May I ask if you are dealing with or making progress with issues that brought you to therapy in the first place?