WW, don't you think that these problems will be normally encountered in any chat room or even the boards? Could you explain what the problem is if two members know each other in 3D and why it bothers you? I don't get it.
If you triggered someone with your silliness, I sure wasn't there, but I find you funny and refreshing. Can't imagine what you could have said. You know... we can't always be responsible for other's feelings when you're in a group of usually oversensitive people. Besides, whenever anyone comes into the chat that even drops the smallest hint that something might be wrong, you drop everything and focus kindly on that person. If I were you, I wouldn't worry about it too much.
Now... do you want to know what bothers me about chat??

It's the voyeurs! They come into chat and never say anything! No, I'm not talking about Greg or Fuzzy. LOL We know we're safe with them. It's the others... and I know you know who I'm thinking about. They don't post much so we don't get to know who they are and then sit and read everything we say in chat. Makes me feel like "I'm being watched" and NOT in a good way!
Sweety, don't worry about what you say. You're always so kind and caring.

...and goofy, too! LOL
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