I told T on monday that I feel like I want to suck at her breast and instead all I'm getting is a bottle...that came out before i had time to think LOL...she replied that a bottle can be a good substitute pyschologically..then she asked me if I felt she had just fobbed me off? I said no but I need to think about this...I find talking in metaphors so much easier then saying "dam woman I feel so much love for you but am frustrated"