oh crocus, it makes me sad to see how you read rejection in everything. i think all she was saying is that you can make it through the sadness...though when people say "you are stronger than you think," i do internally roll my eyes at them, so i do understand how maybe you could see that statement as invalidating.

i am sorry you are sad, care to elaborate? if not, hugs...or not hugs if you are anti-touch.