Hmm, I'm not sure, because I don't know how it is for other people in their own lives.
I know for me I strive to be authentic... meaning I do my best to deal with the reality of a situation and to view things without defenses. I strongly value honesty, integrity, and the truth as one sees it (while acknowledging that 'truth' is subjective... the same experience may have a different 'truth' for different people).
I do believe in openness and honesty in life. I am sure any DIDer would know how extremely damaging secrets can be.
I guess I believe that you do not know the truth you can not hope to deal with it... life becomes a falsehood.

Do you have a special talent?