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Originally Posted by HalfBloodPrince
You are lucky as you don't feel jealousy anymore. I think, as years pass, we get control over our emotions.
But what if, in the example quoted by you, the other person who has applied for the job is less qualified, less capable of doing the job than you and still job is offered to the other person, what do you feel then?
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I would certainly have been questioning the choice, also questioning my own performance in interview if that had been the case. Would I have felt 'jealousy'? I can't really say for sure.
I did have a lot of negative emotions at the time as it was, disappointment, rebuffed, but separated those from the person who did get the job because none of that was to do with her.
I'm quite a pragmatic logical person so maybe this is part of that.